Values
“You struggle to decide which parts are just packaging. You need to cut loose a few parts because they’re glued together in the wrong place. A few parts are dirty. And a couple of screws are so rusty you need to replace them.”
Values stem from our beliefs and are the guiding principles we deem important in our lives.
Have you ever consciously created a priority list of values? You may be surprised, and that list may reveal why you are finding it difficult to reach your goals (aka why you are stuck), if your values and beliefs don’t align with what you are trying to achieve, the values and beliefs will win.
Beliefs and values jointly, guide us and govern our actions, how we communicate with others and interact with others, our attitudes and opinions, how we respond emotionally. How we show up and how we are in our world.
Values can be sorted into categories or areas of your life and they may differ from category to category:
Personal – those you take for yourself such as honesty, responsibility, loyalty
Family
Relationships
Financial
Political
Health and fitness
Environmental
Career
Personal Growth
Spirituality
Within each category there maybe be an extensive list of values, it is best to work with your top five or six, examples are:
Abundance
Acceptance
Accountability
Achievement
Advancement
Adventure
Advocacy
Ambition
Appreciation
Dependability
Diversity
Empathy
Encouragement
Enthusiasm
Ethics
Excellence
Expressiveness
Fairness
Family
Friendships
Flexibility
Freedom
Fun
Generosity
Grace
Growth
Happiness
Health
Honesty
Humility
Humor
Inclusiveness
Independence
Attractiveness
Autonomy
Balance
Being the Best
Benevolence
Boldness
Brilliance
Calmness
Caring
Individuality
Innovation
Inspiration
Intelligence
Intuition
Joy
Kindness
Knowledge
Leadership
Learning
Love
Loyalty
Making a Difference
Mindfulness
Money
Motivation
Optimism
Open-Mindedness
Originality
Passion
Performance
Personal -Development
Proactive
Challenge
Charity
Cheerfulness
Cleverness
Community
Commitment
Compassion
Cooperation
Collaboration
Professionalism
Quality
Recognition
Respect
Risk Taking
Safety
Security
Service
Spirituality
Stability
Peace
Perfection
Playfulness
Popularity
Power
Preparedness
Proactivity
Professionalism
Punctuality
Recognition
Relationships
Reliability
Resilience
Resourcefulness
Connection
Consistency
Contribution
Creativity
Credibility
Curiosity
Daring
Decisiveness
Dedication
Responsibility
Responsiveness
Self-Control
Selflessness
Simplicity
Stability
Success
Support
Teamwork
Thankfulness
Thoughtfulness
Traditionalism
Trustworthiness
Understanding
Uniqueness
Usefulness
Versatility
Vision
Warmth
Wealth
Well-Being
Wisdom
Zeal
How well do you know yourself? Select your top five or six values for each category of your life. How in sync is your life with your values? Are your values supporting your best life?
Barb utilises NLP techniques to help you identify your values and make sure that they are congruent with your goals so that moving forward is a breeze.
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